A Parent's Guide to Pediatric Surgery

At Somerset Medical Center, we understand that a child's surgery can be a time of apprehension for the entire family. This information will help you know what to expect and hopefully alleviate some of your concerns.

Preparing Your Child for Surgery
Your child will have a better experience if he or she is well prepared. Your child's specific fears about surgery and how you prepare for the hospital stay will depend on your child's age and level of development:

For the younger child,

• Explain in simple words what he or she will experience in the hospital.
• Let the child know that you may not be with him or her every minute, but that you will be waiting nearby.
• Children between ages four and seven do best if you discuss the surgery one or two days before it is scheduled, so that the child will not have too much time to worry or fantasize.

Up to Age 11

• The child will be more afraid of the actual pain and injury. Let your child know that he or she needs surgery and that there may be some discomfort, but do not dwell on unpleasant events.
• This discussion should occur at least one week before surgery, so that the child will have time to develop coping mechanisms.

Adolescents

• Adolescents may have many changes going on in their bodies and are more afraid of being exposed. Reassure your adolescent that he or she will be treated with respect and privacy.
• This discussion should occur at least one week before surgery, so that he or she will have time to develop coping mechanisms.

Children have sensitive "antennae" when it comes to their parents' emotions and feelings, so your attitude is very important. Although it is normal for parents to have fear and anxiety when their child is having surgery, try not to convey these feelings to your child. Your own composure and confidence will help your child greatly.

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